How to get out of a Situationship
- Ekta Dodhia
- Sep 7, 2020
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 11, 2020
Edited by Parita Nagaria
Have you ever found yourself in an unwanted situationship, where you keep getting hurt and feeling broken? Then read ahead to find out how to get out of that situationship.
The first thing you need to understand is that, just because you like someone, it is not a must that they will reciprocate the same feelings for you. This is the time when you need to put yourself first then think about others. Do not stay in a relationship just because you want to please others. I am not saying it is wrong to think about others around you, think about them, yes, but in the process, do not impose your feelings on others and, more importantly, do not kill your own happiness for the sake of others. Sometimes, it is essential to take a step back and observe, you will realize how much someone values you and what is your importance in their lives.
The key points to remember are:
Be honest with yourself
Ask yourself is this what you truly want, and think about it seriously. The sooner you realize that this isn't for you, the better. Once you recognize that you are in pain, it will be much easier to think about moving on. Once you are honest with yourself about your situation, it also becomes easier for the other person because your clarity will guide them too.
Be brave enough to end it
The next thing you truly need is the courage to end something that was really beautiful yet undefined. This might have been some of the best moments in your life and you may find it extremely difficult to let go, but you have got to be brave enough to end it, because your future happiness depends on it. You cannot remain in a situationship your entire life just because you are afraid. Who knows, maybe the next phase of your life will have an abundance of simple, peaceful love and genuine happiness. Understand your needs and feelings. Do not stay in a situationship just because you do not want to let go or you want to prolong that small time of happiness which could leave a great scare. Eventually you will have to let go!!
Be ready for the outcome, whatever it may be
Even after understanding their needs, most people avoid taking the necessary actions to fulfill these needs because they are afraid of the outcome. Time and again, people have suppressed their needs, because they are scared of losing people they truly love and care for. But, how can you allow yourself to sacrifice your happiness for a person who does not feel the same towards you? This is the reason why you need to be ready for any outcome. Once, you have decided to end the situationship, you must also accept that this decision could either be very healthy or very painful. You could lose the person or you could even gain a really amazing friend. It is all dependent on how the other person also perceived the relationship to begin with. All you need to remember is to be positive, because you are taking this difficult step for peace and clarity in your life. Therefore do not stay in a situationship just because you are scared to lose the person or because you do not want things to change between the two of you. The reality is that things constantly change; they cannot stay the same forever, so, why prolong the inevitable?
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