Are you dating the right person ?

Being in a relationship is the best time for some and a stressful time for others. The difference is there because of our expectations from our partners; most of us tend to have high expectations. However, not all expectations will be met by the partner leading to a lack of happiness within the relationship. The most important thing is to learn to accept people as they are, do not try and change them. Remember to be happy with yourself because then you won't need your partner to make you happy.

Every person has different qualities and personality types because each person is unique. However, are you dating the right person? The following pointers may help you determine just how right your partner is for you.

• Do they hold you back?

Is your life partner your biggest supporter? Someone who truly gets excited for you when you achieve your goals in life. They don't feel the need to hold you back because they enjoy your success with you. However, some unhealthy relationships have one partner or both partners restricting the other in various ways using different tactics. They may be limiting you by discouraging you from doing something or giving you negative feedback on your achievements.

• They don't want to change you.

When your partner is patient with you and treats you the same, whether in public or not, they do not keep asking you to change or indirectly point out that you are not doing things a certain way. When they demand you do something, otherwise there will be consequences, then they are just trying to control you. Ensure you run from such a controlling person as they will never treat you well.

• The vibe that comes along with them

Listen to your heart. What does it say when you are around this person? What is your intuition around them, the emotions you feel when they are around? Are they happy, sad, safe or you tend to feel unsafe around them? These are all signs of how the person may be. Do they fit into your life? If not, then you may want to rethink the relationship before it is too late. Do they get along with your friends and family? Are you happy with them? Do you get along with their friends and family? If yes, then only go ahead with this relationship.

• Do they comfort you when you are sad?

How they treat you when you are sad is one of the significant signs to notice as this will tell you a lot about the person. Are they able to help you change your mood? They change your mood by being more attentive to you, even if that means they have to stop their current activities to help you out. They make an effort to show they genuinely care for you. Because if you are sad and they criticize you for being miserable instead of being there for you. Then there is something wrong.

• They are happy seeing you happy (supportive)

At any point, if you are dating someone who loves to make you happy and you feel the same towards them, that is the best. Couples who put their partners as one of their priorities in their life tend to have a better collaboration than those who tend to be more individualistic. This is because they tend to be there for each other because they want to be there for each other. They do not see it as an obligation but rather as care for someone they love.

• A good listener

Do they show genuine interest in your life by listening to you attentively when you speak? OR do they always focus on themselves and make everything about them. What is happening in their life, and every time you try to bring up your side, you are shut down immediately. Their lack of interest can speak volumes about how your relationship may be in the future.

There are many ways for your partner to show they Love you and care for you. It does not have to be grand gestures but small minor things like just listening to your problems. Hugging you when you need them or just being there for you. Also, communication in a relationship is vital. Therefore ensure you communicate your thoughts very clearly to avoid misunderstandings. So how does your partner treat you?

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